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30 Days of Prayer to Strengthen Your Marriage


Praying about and FOR your marriage is among the most essential issues you’ll be able to pray about. With 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it may well simply turn out to be a type of belongings you silently don’t take note of, after which out of the blue, you’re on reverse sides of all the pieces and might’t appear to return collectively to avoid wasting your life. 

In the present day, I need to share with you 30 prayers that may strengthen your marriage. You may pray these with or with out your partner, however take one prayer every day and repeat it month after month! This may actually assist your marriage. 

Prayer is such a strong factor. Not do we have to go to a priest like within the Bible days earlier than we received the Holy Spirit inside us to speak to God. We are able to entry Him anytime and we must always make the most of that privilege as a lot as humanly potential. 

30 Days of Prayer to Strengthen Your Marriage

I hope that these prayers bless you as a lot as they bless me. Let’s get began!!!

Day 1: Placing God First {Matthew 6:33}

Pricey Lord Jesus, I need with all my coronary heart to place you first in my marriage and in my life. So usually, I discover my coronary heart within the thick of the world and caught up in life’s issues and stresses and I pray that as we speak, you clear the trail in my thoughts and maintain my coronary heart purely and solely in love with YOU. Assist me to see issues as you see issues and do issues as you’ll need me to. Get ahold of my coronary heart and deepen my love for you Lord. 

Day 2: Arguing {Proverbs 15:1}

It’s really easy to get caught up within the warmth of the second and need to defend ourselves or show we’re proper and struggle for our rights, Lord. Please assist me to mortify my flesh and notice that it’s not about who is true and who isn’t and that in an argument, nobody wins. Each of us simply find yourself offended and it hurts my coronary heart to see my husband offended. My need is to please my husband and make him blissful. I don’t need to struggle or see him offended. Please assist our relationship to be stronger in you, and provides us a renewed sense of affection for one another as we speak in order that we could put this argument behind us and concentrate on you. 

Day 3: Cash {Hebrews 13:5}

It looks like we’ve got so many cash disagreements and might’t get on the identical web page in any respect on this topic. I pray Lord, that you simply carry peace, if nothing else, simply carry peace to our residence and assist us each to be extra versatile so that we’d serve you and focus our consideration on what YOU would need for us, not our personal fleshly sinful needs. Please assist me to be extra humble when speaking with my husband with reference to marriage and assist carry peace to our midst as solely you’ll be able to. 

Day 4: Respect {Ephesians 5:33}

Lord, I do know that my husband seeks for me to respect him greater than he cares if I really like him! That’s how essential respect is to a person and I simply need a lot Lord to respect him. He’s finished one thing recently that makes me not belief him and hurts my respect for him. He hasn’t essentially earned my respect on this approach and although he hasn’t Lord, I pray that you simply’ll assist me to look previous that, look previous the errors and simply focus my coronary heart and soul on you and your command to me to respect my husband. Please, Lord, give me a respect for my husband that he would admire and revel in. 

Day 5: Communication {Ephesians 4:29}

Lord, recently we’ve got not been putting as a lot time into our communication. It’s extra rushed and blunt, moderately than caring, loving, and considerate. Lord, when you would please, please assist us to take extra time to actually join and talk. Assist us to worth speaking extra and to spend extra time collectively speaking. Speaking about life, about love, in regards to the youngsters, funds, all the pieces Lord. Present us with unity in our residence and healthful speech on our tongues that we could glorify you today and forevermore.

Day 6: Faithfulness {Proverbs 3:3-4}

Lord, so usually my love for my husband isn’t certain up in steadfast love and faithfulness. I admit that I wrestle with being devoted and constant in all the pieces I do and I need a lot to be extra devoted in my coronary heart and life. Assist me as we speak to decide to my husband, extra of my coronary heart, so that he could have increasingly more of me as I yield my spirit to you and my coronary heart to him.

Day 7: Intimacy {Music of Solomon 1-8}

Intimacy is such a fragile and valuable factor. To my husband, being intimate means one thing completely different than it means to me. To me, I would like us to be extra intimate in a extra light and serene approach. I pray Lord as we speak that you simply assist my husband be freer and know that it’s okay to be tender with me. The world chokes these virtues out of him, however Lord, please put them again in. Assist us to be extra intimate, not simply sexual actions, however extra intimate in our hearts Lord as we search to honor and please you in our marriage.

Day 8: Retaining Our Priorities Proper {Ephesians 5:22-25}

Lord, we all know from Scripture the order of relationships is that you’re first (Deuteronomy 6:5) after which subsequent is my partner (Ephesians 5:22-25), nevertheless generally I admit, I don’t at all times put him as first after You. Generally the world will get in the best way, my flesh. I need to be first. It’s simply not simple to at all times be devoted considering of his wants above my very own. I’m egocentric and fleshly and need to put my needs forward of his wants and this will’t be. Lord, please give me a extra real, fruit-filled love for my husband in order that I can maintain HIM because the second precedence in my life. I need it so desperately, however generally, it’s simply so onerous and I would like your assist to be higher at it. 

Day 9: Real Love {John 13:35}

There are such a lot of kinds of love, Lord. There’s agape love, Your love for all of us, unconditional, sacrificial, and pure. There’s Philia love, a cohesion. A love you’re feeling for a buddy or brother in Christ. There’s Eros, a romantic and passionate love, and lastly, there’s Storge, a household love. Love that’s constructed on empathy. Lord, I don’t have ALL all these love for my husband. I’d love to have the ability to have all 4 kinds of like to and for my husband and I ask that you simply give me extra of those that I would like as a way to be a greater spouse. So that I really like my husband extra completely as you like us, Lord. Please give me extra real love, extra of all 4 kinds of love for my husband. Fill me extra with empathy, with romance and keenness, with a love that’s his as a result of he’s my finest buddy and an unconditional, sacrificial love. Fill me with all 4 kinds of love for my husband. 

Day 10: Integrity {Proverbs 10:9}

Integrity is among the most essential issues you’ll be able to have in ANY relationship and inside my marriage isn’t any completely different. My husband and I are so filled with integrity and I do know that you simply discover, however I pray that you simply develop us even MORE in our integrity with each other and likewise in our dealings aside. Once we are tempted to not do one thing that’s proper, once we are tempted to promote out, please keep our integrity and assist us to be the individuals that you simply need. 

Day 11: Being Variety {Galatians 6:9-10}

My husband is amazingly form to me and to others. He’s somebody actually particular to look at on this space and I pray, Lord, that you simply make me extra like him on this approach. It’s one of many issues that I simply actually treasure about him a lot. Please develop me to be extra form and loving, light and meek. Taking each thought captive and asking myself whether it is form earlier than I converse it. On this approach, you’re glorified when I’m form to my household. 

Day 12: Forgiveness {Ephesians 4:32}

There are days the place I simply don’t need to forgive my husband. He’s finished one thing incorrect, he is aware of it, I do know it, and he’s unwilling to confess he’s doing something in any respect. It’s so irritating to my coronary heart and I simply, in my very own sin nature, don’t need to forgive him. Please Lord, will you assist that cussed satisfaction in me? Assist me to like my husband extra, to be a girl who’s fast to forgive and present mercy and style as you frequently present ME! 

Day 13: Persistence {Romans 12:12}

Pricey Lord, you understand how a lot I wrestle with endurance generally. It’s so powerful for me to be affected person. I can’t do that alone and I pray that you simply assist me be extra affected person with my complete household. Assist me do not forget that my children are simply children and that I can’t anticipate perfection from them. Assist me to be extra affected person and loving with my husband, exhibiting him grace when he wants it as he’s so form and loving and delicate with ME. Assist our complete household to be extra affected person with each other, Lord.

Day 14: Teamwork {Ecclesiastes 4:9-12}

Some of the widespread issues amongst married girls is that we are inclined to neglect how IMPORTANT it’s to work as a workforce. We get so targeted, Lord, on the every day grind and sometimes are unappreciative of our spouses and the assist that they offer us. As a single mother, now I do 100% of EVERYTHING. I’ve completely no assist in the husband division and I see simply how important the husband’s function is, how a lot he helps (even when we predict he does nothing; belief me, he’s doing stuff!) and so my prayer as we speak Lord is that I always remember this stuff. I always remember to indicate appreciation to my husband. I always remember to work as a workforce and to KNOW that we ARE a workforce! If I neglect, Lord, please gently remind me how blessed I actually am to have assist!

Day 15: Honesty {Proverbs 19:1}

Lack of honesty can fully destroy a wedding. Lord, please assist me to at all times be trustworthy, even within the small and “insignificant” issues, for all the pieces is tremendous essential and NOTHING is really insignificant. You inform us that if we’re devoted with little, we might be devoted with a lot and in order that’s my prayer as we speak. I need to proceed to be devoted in all areas, together with honesty, even when I’m tempted to inform slightly white lie, let me proceed to forbid myself to do it and never lie. Assist me to indicate my husband that he’s SAFE to return to me and share ANYTHING, even when it’s hurtful as a result of it’s at all times higher to be truthful than to cover or lie about one thing, in the long term, and Lord, I’m on this marriage for the long term!!!

Day 16: Assist {Ecclesiastes 4:12}

I need to spend money on you increasingly more. I need to be extra of a mission for you and assist others see you thru me. With a view to serve you extra, Lord, I need assistance. I would like extra assist. I can’t do all of it on my own and I pray that my husband helps me extra, emotionally. I pray additionally that I’m not discovered hypocritical on this space however that I’m totally, 100% supporting him as nicely, emotionally and spiritually. Assist us to be united, a workforce, totally supporting one another and our love for you, Lord. 

Day 17: Dedication {Numbers 30:2}

On daily basis I search to honor you. I get up and I learn my Bible, in search of your will, in search of for use by you. It’s an enormous dedication that I’ve made to you, however I’m wondering to myself, how a lot am I additionally dedicated to my husband in the identical approach? Do I get up within the morning and suppose to myself, “How can I serve my husband as we speak? How can I present my love and dedication to him extra today?” I totally admit that I don’t and I pray that you simply assist me to alter that. Assist me to worth increasingly more, every day, my dedication, love, and servitude to my husband.

Day 18: Compassion {Colossians 3:12-13}

It’s not at all times simple to indicate compassion. Generally I really feel like my husband has finished one thing incorrect to me. He’s harm me, and I simply don’t WANT to indicate compassion and style to him. I need to be offended. I really feel like I’ve a proper to BE offended, Lord. However even when there’s a proper to be offended, I do know that I nonetheless want to indicate grace and compassion to my husband and I pray that you simply soften and alter my coronary heart. Assist me to need to be extra compassionate towards my husband’s shortcomings as he’s SO fantastically nice at being compassionate with mine!

Day 19: Positivity {Ephesians 5:20}

I’ve been so adverse recently. It looks like all the pieces goes incorrect and there are trials and temptations in all places. I get annoyed with life. I get annoyed in my marriage. I get annoyed with myself. Please Lord, assist me to be extra constructive. I do know that it begins with being content material and so I pray that you simply simply assist me to be extra content material in my life. Assist me to see extra of the wonder and fewer of the ache. Assist me to be a extra constructive, caring, and inspiring particular person, not just for my husband and household but in addition in my spirit in direction of the world. For I’m your baby, your ambassador, and when individuals see me depressing, it does NOT glorify you or appeal to others TO you. Assist me to be extra constructive in order that I could also be used extra by you, each in my marriage and to the world, Lord.

Day 20: Understanding {Psalm 119:130}

There are lots of occasions in my marriage that I simply don’t really feel like listening or I feel I already know the reply and so I’m not listening as I should. Please assist me to hunt to know how my husband is feeling extra. Please assist me to take the time to actually perceive him and his wants and needs higher, Lord. that I’m not an ideal spouse, however I positive attempt to be and I do know that all of it begins with a willingness to know my husband. Within the occasions that I’m not feeling notably prepared, please soften my coronary heart towards my husband that I could also be used in your glory to indicate the world, your love via me, to him.

Day 21: Friendship {Proverbs 18:24}

Generally life will get busy, Lord, and we’re simply not capable of spend as a lot time collectively to deepen our friendship as I’d like. I pray that you simply assist decelerate our world so that we might be able to spend extra time collectively, actually investing in our basis: friendship! Real love is at all times rooted in a deep and lasting, intimate friendship. Please proceed to strengthen our friendship and assist us to know one another extra on this approach.

Day 22: Peacefulness {John 14:27}

Peacefulness is one thing that I so strongly search and need. It’s the idea on which I would like my residence to be grounded in. Lord Jesus, please assist our residence to be a cheerful hope, filled with peace, love, and contentment. Assist us that once we are feeling filled with strife and enmity, that you simply draw us again to you, collectively, so that we keep peace in our residence.

Day 23: Gentleness {Titus 3:2}

The world bangs our husband’s round and makes them really feel fully insufficient when they’re light, and but you Lord, have been light and meek while you walked the Earth. Please assist my husband perceive and really feel prefer it’s OKAY to be extra light. You’re the good shepherd, Lord, please present my husband that he can be a great and delicate shepherd. Please additionally assist my coronary heart to be extra light and tender towards my husband, even in occasions that I don’t really feel prefer it. Cowl us along with your peace and gentleness, Lord, that we could also be discovered treating one another proper and with respect. 

Day 24: Humble {Psalm 25:9}

Being humble is one thing that I actually wrestle with. The extra that you simply give me, the extra you bless me, the extra I are inclined to suppose it’s due to my very own benefit or worthiness that I’ve one thing and I do know that’s incorrect. Please assist information and form my coronary heart and angle to be frequently humbled. It’s not unhealthy to be grateful and grateful that you simply give us issues, it’s incorrect to suppose I deserve it, whether or not in my marriage or in life typically. Assist me to remain on the course of studying the stability between being humble, but in addition, sharing the way you’ve blessed me in my life. 

Day 25: Cooperative {1 Peter 3:15}

Being cooperative is difficult generally. I’m egocentric, Lord, and I simply need my very own approach. It’s troublesome to see previous what I would like and to the wants and needs of others. I fall quick on this approach so usually, Lord. Please assist me to be extra cooperative with my partner. Assist me to present extra and take much less. Assist me to place his wants earlier than my very own and to like him extra in a delicate and forgiving approach. Assist me, Lord, to be much less egocentric!

Day 26: Playful {John 15:11} 

Life looks like it’s a relentless barrage of to do’s. Day in and time out, there’s at all times one thing to suck our pleasure from our life. Please assist me to repeatedly do not forget that and to protect my coronary heart and thoughts in opposition to the monotony of life. Assist me and my husband to be extra playful towards each other, extra playful in life typically, to have extra FUN, to do issues, go locations, and simply adore one another and spend numerous time with one another in enjoyable ways in which we every take pleasure in. Assist us to do not forget that life isn’t meant to work an excessive amount of and that playtime is tremendous essential in my marriage. Assist me and my husband to prioritize the enjoyable in life in order that we are able to proceed to have a cheerful and wholesome marriage. 

Day 27: Versatile {Ephesians 5:21}

Lord, generally I wrestle with being versatile. My thoughts is continually wanting to consider what I would like as a substitute of what my partner would need. Please assist me to be extra versatile and assist my partner to be extra versatile too, so that we could also be extra united as one than we at the moment are. 

Day 28: Well mannered {1 Peter 3:8}

Lord, I by no means realized earlier than how essential it’s to be well mannered to your partner. I at all times felt prefer it’s essential to voice my opinion and let him know the way I really feel, not hiding something. However I’ve realized recently that we are able to nonetheless voice our opinions however accomplish that in a well mannered and delicate approach. I pray that you simply instill in me extra politeness. Once I respect my husband extra, I’m extra well mannered, so I additionally pray Lord, that you simply give me extra respect for him. Then I will be extra well mannered and deal with him in the best way that he deserves to be handled as the pinnacle of the family and fellow inheritor in Christ.

Day 29: Attentive {Proverbs 4:20-27}

One of many issues that I worth about my relationship with my partner is that we’re attentive to one another’s wants, nevertheless, generally, we each will be self-focused. Please assist us to share widespread floor extra, spend extra high quality time with one another and present love to one another extra, focusing not solely on the opposite’s wants, but in addition their objectives, needs, and issues that make them blissful.

Day 30: Exhausting Working {Proverbs 13:4}

Generally I take as a right how onerous working my husband is. He goes to work and works all day. On the weekends, he spends time together with his household. He tends to issues round the home that break. He’s the principle breadwinner and he gives so lovingly and sacrificially for his household. However because the day goes on and the youngsters have made me a whole wreck and it’s only a onerous day that I wanna pull out my hair, I’m tempted to imagine that I’m operating this household on my own and I’m not. Lord, assist me to recollect how onerous working my husband is, so that I respect and love him all of the extra for sacrificing for me and the youngsters every day. Thanks a lot for giving me such a tough working husband! 

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